I have a traveling job... Every 2-3 weeks, I have to pack my bags and go around Singapore region to do some client work or conduct some training...
Before marriage I would have loved to get this kind of job.. We gain more confidence in our work interacting with various people, get to stay in 5 star hotels, visit different places, experience new cultures and on top of that earn extra money through perdiem ... What else could I have asked...
But now, I am somehow not so found of traveling for work (traveling with family is altogether a different thing). The thought of Vishal and feeling that "He will be alone at home... " keeps me wishing to go back to Singapore and counting my days in the foreign country.
This is the same job that I would have loved to do two years back... And now why do I feel I shouldn't do this kind of job?? Why there is such a difference after marriage? Has marriage changed me so much that my preferences have taken U turn... ? Do all the other girls also go through the similar situation and dilemma or is it just me??
I am not sure...Seriously life is so strange..
Priorities change after any life changing event :) and its always good that we keep our personal life in high priority :)
ReplyDeleteYup.. thats so true Neelima.
ReplyDeleteAt the time of writing the post, I was so perplexed by whatever going through my mind.. I couldn't understand my own emotions...
Plus I have many girls in my office who would manage this kind of job + family with kids.. So I couldn't understand whats wrong with me.. But yeah offcourse everyone has different priorities in life.. That makes a big difference..